Your WHO and Your DO

Some shows are just more personal than others, and this was one of them. In fact, I was crying through parts of the interview this morning, as were my guests. I am so grateful to be part of this community of women who share--their stories, their hearts, their lives. The stories aren't always joyous. They can be dark and painful. Regardless, they are always so meaningful for me. Because these … [Read more...]

The Experiment of Life

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A year ago, I started an experiment. And now, I want to report on the results. But first, some "non-scientific" background on experiments. In my world, experiments can be an opportunity to think big, to dream big, and then to pour your energies into that dream to see what happens. Experiments are NOT about judgments you use as an excuse to beat on yourself like the proverbial drum. Experiments … [Read more...]

Giving to Haiti

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I know that many of you want to contribute what you can to support the relief efforts in Haiti. I found these tips from the American Institute of Philanthropy's (AIP) website, CharityWatch.org, that will help to ensure that the money you donate actually gets to Haiti. 1. Know your charity.  Read the mission, make sure that there is a clear description of program accomplishments, and a listing … [Read more...]

Divine Job Description

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As I hope you know, the reason I do Real Life is to help we women with the ongoing challenge of finding balance in our lives, making sure that we’re in alignment with our values and what is most important for us, and experiencing joy. I believe that by increasing our capacity for compassion-- first for ourselves, then for those close to us, and ultimately expanding out to those we may not even … [Read more...]

Reducing Stress in the Family

What is it about stress that we like so much, I wonder? We must if we keep inviting it into our psyches and our lives. Stress can be good. Athletes will describe how stress can actually enhance performance and medical researchers are finding that stress can strengthen the immune system and fight against diseases like Alzheimer’s, because it causes brain cells to work at peak capacities. … [Read more...]

Burning Silence

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QUOTE OF THE WEEK: The focus on the creation of Peace begins within. -- Caverly Morgan I actually have spent 10 days at a silent zen monastery. Wake up at 7:00 a.m. Walk to the meditation hall. Oh, by the way, when I’ m walking, I must keep my gaze downcast in front of me, lest I catch someone else’s eye. Every moment of every day, including when I’m walking, is structured for me turn … [Read more...]